Steadfast Consolations

I wish I had something profound to write. So many thoughts spinning through my mind, and I can't make sense of any of them. But this verse comes to mind, again and again....

"When the cares of my heart are many,
your consolations cheer my soul" (Psalm 94:19).

Tonight I am thankful for a God who holds me up with his steadfast love (v. 18) when my foot slips and my heart is anxious. I am thankful for friends and family that love me. I am thankful for a place to call home, even when my heart can't decide where home really is. So maybe instead I should say that I am thankful for many places to call home. And I am thankful for frequent reminders that I don't have to bear the cares of my heart alone.

Sleep well, friends.

Lessons from the Learners (Part One of Many, I'm sure)

Background: If you remember our month of outreaches in March (affectionately referred to as "March Madness"), you'll remember that we partnered with New York City Urban Project (NYCUP), part of InterVarsity. Well, this summer we're partnering with them again for their Summer Immersion Project, and as a result of that I have a team of six awesome interns! They're here to serve and to learn, but I'm already learning loads from them...

Today's lesson:

God doesn't just love me. He likes me, too.

Mind = blown. Think about it for a while.

I hope it encourages you as much as it encouraged me.

No Doubt about It!

"No doubt about it: children are a gift from the Lord" (Psalm 127:3).

One of our team members read this verse today during our debrief, and I heard it differently than I ever have before. To be honest, I think every other time I've read it or heard it I've thought, yeah, a gift I'm missing out on because I don't have children of my own. But today I thought, they really are. Thank you, God, that I get to work with this most precious gift all the time.

This month has been awesome. Tiring, hard, exhausting, emotional-- yes. But bottom line, it has been absolutely awesomely incredible. Each week has had its own highlights and its own challenges, but this fourth and final week was unlike any of the others on so many levels. We went into it knowing some of the challenges: we'd be short-staffed on Monday, we wouldn't be allowed to talk about Jesus, and the children we'd be serving would be some of the most at-risk kids we'd seen all month. But we couldn't have known the highlights, and we definitely couldn't have known how most of those highlights would be because of the challenges.

- The extra program day on Monday allowed Isaac, Danielle, and me to take more active roles in leading groups and activities. Leading groups meant that we got to know the kids better than we would have otherwise, and it was a blessing to each of us personally to watch those relationships grow throughout the week. I think that our personal connection to specific kids gave us extra energy and enthusiasm for our final week.

- I asked our volunteers how it had been for them not being allowed to speak about Jesus. They said they'd been struck by how much easier it is to talk about Jesus than it is to act like him-- and that they'd learned so much more about him in the process.

- We had braced ourselves for the challenges of working with kids in or at risk of being placed in foster care. We expected behavior issues and anger issues. But I don't think any of us expected kids who loved to be loved and loved to love back so readily and enthusiastically.

Today was the last day of "Brain Camp" (the program at the school). All week we've wondered what the school thought of our program. Today the vice principal came up to me and said "would you keep us in mind to do this again next year??" Oh lady, you have no idea how much we were hoping you'd say that!

We invited the kids to come to Padre Plaza tomorrow. I drew maps for every kid in the red group because they were so concerned that their parents might not let them come if they didn't know exactly where it was. I'm nervous that their parents still might not let them come. Pray with us that their parents will bring them, that they will come, that they will hear about Jesus, that they'll sign up to come to camp, that this will be the beginning of a long-term relationship with Jesus and with us.

There's another verse in the same chapter that says "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders' work is pointless" (v 1). That's been so true of our March Madness month. He's shown us again and again that he's in this, that he has been building this outreach and building the relationships with these children. We serve a big God. So we're asking him big things. Can you ask him with us? There's no doubt about it that he loves these kids even more than we do-- and that's saying a lot!

Sad for Thursday

Did you have fun today? -- I asked Tania, one of the girls from the group I led on Monday.

"So much fun," she responded. "But I'm sad."

Why are you sad??

"Cuz tomorrow's Thursday."

Huh? Why does that make you sad?

"Because this is gonna be over!"

So I told her about Padre Plaza and how we'll be there on Friday and she should come then, too. She asked several questions to make sure she knew exactly which park I meant.

"What time??"

1 o'clock.

"In the morning?!"

No, in the afternoon.

"Wait, when is that?"

You eat lunch at noon, right?

"No, 12:30."

Okay, you eat lunch at 12:30. And then it's 1 o'clock right after that. That 1 o'clock.

"Oh, that 1 o'clock! Okay great! I'm gonna ask my mom if she'll bring me!"

I sure hope she comes. But either way, I agree with her. I'm kind of sad tomorrow's Thursday and that this is gonna be over soon, too. Don't get me wrong; I'm excited to sleep. But after I've slept a bit, I'm gonna miss all this March Madness. It's been pretty awesome.

An Eclectic Cast

Thank you to everyone who prayed. After I posted that last entry, another of my volunteers canceled. God, that's not what I meant by providing enough volunteers. And then my friend Eleanor (who had come up for our East Harlem outreach and was part of the original Padre Plaza team) texted me that one of her friends from Tennessee was in NYC for his spring break with some friends and that they wanted to volunteer with us for the day! Oh yes, that is more what I had in mind!!!

I woke up this morning to more cancellations of people who had said they'd help. At some point though, you just have to say Okay God, this one's yours. Please equip us to do this. I don't know how, but please do something.

When I got to the office this morning, someone else canceled. Okay, it's time to swallow my pride and tell the vice principal that we're short-staffed. So I emailed her and asked if we could combine groups since our numbers were so much lower than we'd anticipated. Imagine my joy when she responded, "Actually, our numbers are a lot lower than we'd expected too; a bunch of kids forgot about it today. So that should work well, and you'll have a bigger group the rest of the week."

A few NYCUP students arrived early and joined us. Two of the kids still in our current mentoring program in Manhattan had spring break and agreed to help out. One of my former NJ students rode the bus in and lent a hand as well. The two guys from Tennessee who gave an afternoon of their spring break. The president of the IVCF chapter at Columbia who heard about the need. My roommate who left the restaurant in all its craziness because she knew I was so short-handed. Several camp counselors who live in the city. And suddenly, we actually looked like a legitimate team of volunteers.

I remember hearing once that God doesn't always deliver in the eleventh hour. Sometimes he waits until the thirteenth hour. But he always delivers. I know this wasn't a matter of life and death, but it was a pretty big deal to me and, as I've been learning, God really does care about the details of my life. And boy, did it feel like we were in the thirteenth hour. But God showed up. And it was awesome. I know that we don't get to see the whole picture right away, but I'm already thankful that I had the chance to lead a group (usually I just get to equip my volunteers to lead) and to have the interactions I did with the kids we served today. I'm pretty psyched to go back tomorrow with a full volunteer staff. But the team today was a pretty awesome reminder that God really does want us there, sharing his love (though wordlessly) with the children in that school!

The Last Round

Well, here we go. The home stretch. Tomorrow afternoon is the beginning of the end. And this week, just like all the others before it, will be different than anything we've done to this point. And I'm kind of nervous about it.

See, we got this awesome opportunity to partner with a charter school that serves primarily foster kids or those at risk of being placed in the foster system. I know-- cool, right? But there are two stipulations: 1. We have to run it Monday-Thursday (instead of our usual Tuesday-Friday) and 2. We can't talk about God, Jesus, or anything religious. Maybe these should have been deal-breakers, but we made the decision to go with it.

I'll take the second obstacle first. Last year, when faced with the same stipulation at the school where we'd been planning to hold our outreach, I knew God wanted us to walk away and not compromise. Have I gone soft? I keep wondering. But this year, I really think that God wants us to be at this school. It's in the exact neighborhood where we are trying to be long-term; and these are exactly the kinds of kids we are hoping to serve. Maybe that's why I feel differently about this one-- it's not a one-off event; it's the beginning of building a relationship. This is the "give them a reason to ask of the hope that is in you" phase of the relationship. So please pray that the kids will experience the love of Jesus through each of the leaders this week, even when we are not allowed to use our words just yet.

The first obstacle is actually more daunting to me right now. Monday is tomorrow. This camp session begins at 1pm. Our volunteers arrive at 4pm. I think it's safe to say that even if you're not very time-conscious, you'll agree that those time-frames don't make for good news. So we started recruiting. And recruiting. And begging. And pleading. And three days ago we had enough volunteers signed up to make it happen. And then a couple dropped out. And then one more. And then another. And another. Oh, and then two more. And I am trying not to freak out that we're at the eleventh hour without enough volunteers. Lord, you want us here, right? Will you supply our needs to make this happen because you have called us to this task?

So please pray that he will. And that we will build this relationship with the school in a way that allows us to partner with them longer-term. Pray that these same kids come to Padre Plaza on Friday for our special closing event (where we ARE allowed to talk about Jesus!) and that they'll hear about and understand the love they've been experiencing all week up to that point.

Pray that we have energy to make it through this last week. Pray that we have joy throughout it. Pray that we would genuinely love these kids with the love of Jesus. Pray that they'll feel it and know it's different than anything else they've experienced. And please, please pray that we have enough help tomorrow to pull this off....

Unwanted or Welcome?

I take it for granted all too often, but I'm blessed to have parents who understand my calling to work with inner city kids. I realize this blessing usually when I see the look in people's eyes as I explain what I do or the neighborhoods I sometimes spend time in. Those same people usually ask hesitantly, "How do your parents feel about this??" and I can look them in the eye and say confidently, "They are fully supportive." And I want to explain to them how my parents understand that, ultimately, I'm just as safe on a street corner in the South Bronx as I am on a porch in the middle of suburban Maryland. Because whether I'm in the South Bronx or South Philly or England or Maryland or Haiti, Jesus holds my life in his hands. And he loves me even more than my parents do. And that's saying a whole lot.

I've said all that because some of you might be concerned when you read the rest of this story. Don't worry, I'm even going to call my 'rents before I post this story so they don't have to learn about it on my blog. But it's kind of cool, isn't it, that I know they aren't going to encourage me to start looking for a different line of work or tell me to pull the plug on this ministry? Don't get me wrong; I'm sure they're going to pray even harder for our safety. They'll probably urge me to be careful and not to walk alone. But they know, as I know, that Jesus holds my life in his hands.

I tell myself that all the time, but I'll still admit that today made me a little nervous.

A couple saw Isaac setting up our sound equipment today. Isaac had gone ahead with a couple of the guys to start setting up before the rest of the team arrived. We're not really sure what made this couple so angry-- if they'd seen us there before or if they were just making assumptions about what we were there to do. But whatever sparked it, they were less than happy to see Isaac and the other guys preparing for our event. They told him that we weren't welcome in the community, and they told him we'd better watch ourselves lest we end up with a bullet in the head. After a few more curses and racial slurs, they eventually left when they didn't get a reaction from Isaac.

When Danielle and I arrived with the rest of the group a few minutes later, Isaac was still a little shaken. When he told Danielle and me what had happened, we were a little shaken, too. I'm not just responsible for myself anymore. Am I putting these other people in danger? kept going through my head; and I started looking at passers-by with suspicion and fear that I just haven't felt before.

As Isaac processed what had just happened, he saw a dad standing on the edges of the park. This dad, Ralph, had brought his daughter for the second day and was standing there happily watching her play with the volunteers and other children. Isaac struck up a conversation with him, asking what he thought. Were we hurting rather than helping? Were we meeting a need at all? Or were we somehow being selfish and just making ourselves feel better at others' expense?

Ralph's response was reassuring to all of us. He told Isaac his own story, told what the neighborhood had been like over the past 30 years he'd lived there, and told him that he was so, so thankful that we were there to provide this camp for the kids. Isaac thanked him and explained how grateful he was for the conversation. "No," Ralph said, "I'm the one who is blessed to have met all of you."

I don't know about that; but we were blessed by Ralph today. We told Mike (who runs Padre Plaza) about the first incident, and he reminded us of his favorite truth: "when the light turns yellow, you can step on the brake or step on the gas!" He reminded us that there will be opposition wherever we go, and the test is whether we're going to back down or keep trusting Jesus.

He's right. South Bronx, South Philly, England, Maryland, Haiti. There will always be opposition. And I'm not immune. I know I'm where God wants me; but I get scared, too. And now that I'm responsible for other people, I feel a certain weight that hasn't been there before. But Jesus holds my life (all of our lives!) in his hands and asks me (us!) to trust him. And I do. Imperfectly at times, but those are the times I'm most thankful for friends to hold up my arms. So pray for us. Pray for our ministry. Pray for our effectiveness. Pray for our safety. And pray for our faith. Because I think that Satan would like that to be shaken more than anything else, and if we lose our faith in God's love and protection over us, we'll know fear in whole new ways.

(P.S. I just got off the phone with my 'rents, and I was right. My dad said "Maybe this is just proof that you guys need to be there all the time"; and my mom said "It's a good reminder to pray for your safety." So like I said, I'm blessed that my parents not only understand my calling but are also part of the team that holds up my arms!)

FAT Christians

"What we need is some FAT Christians," says Jonathan-- pretty much on repeat during NYCUP. "Flexible. Adaptable. Teachable. FAT."

And when you're working with 50 college students in East Harlem or the South Bronx and things like bad weather, gang fights, and sickness happen, you realize how right he is.

It's Week 3. Ready, go! Or..... not so fast.... We're supposed to be outside this week, back at Padre Plaza in the South Bronx. But the forecast was 100% chance of rain as of yesterday, and we had to decide to cancel today's program or go for it. So Jonathan planned a LOGOFF (Local, Green, Organic, Fair, Free) scavenger hunt for some of the students, and the other thirty-five students were going to work with us to get everything in order for the rest of the week.

At least that's how I had understood the conversation. But I'm learning that not everyone thinks the way I do, and when I don't double check, sometimes I get part way through the day and find out that we've been thinking different things all along. Today I made this discovery as all but four of the college students filed past me excited to head out for their scavenger hunt.

Oops.

I found Jonathan and we quickly figured out that we'd been talking about different things each time we'd touched base about the plans for the afternoon. And the four remaining college students were standing at attention, ready for instructions about what they were supposed to do.... Yet everything I had planned for them required a lot more than four people to participate.

Flexible. 
Adaptable. 
Teachable. 

Even when you happen to be a Type A personality who likes nothing more than to have all her ducks in a row on the first day of an outreach. Some lessons are harder to learn than others. But sometimes it's good to test exactly how FAT you really can be.

Uncomfortable Heartbreak

If I'm honest, I often feel inadequate for the work that I've been called to do. I encounter a lot of need, and it's really hard for me to know that I can't meet all the need that I see. I know-- it's not up to me. But that doesn't change that I want to be able to fix the brokenness I see; and I struggle every time I realize how much I can't.

This week was no exception. As you know, I was pretty discouraged by our initial numbers. I was sure I'd read things wrong, that it had been a mistake to hold one of our outreaches in East Harlem. God, why did I think you were leading me to this? Did I misunderstand what you were telling me to do?-- kept going through my head.

And then as you know, kids started whining for camp. And on Thursday, God encouraged me by sending us 32 kids.

On Friday, he overwhelmed me by sending us 61 kids.

That's right. 61! They just kept coming. Eleanor and I were running registration, and we could barely keep up with the stream of kids coming through the door. And with the kids came parents who couldn't understand why we were only going to be there for one week. One mother made herself comfortable on the chair next to our table and proceeded to ask who she had to petition for us to make this camp a permanent thing. Other mothers joined their voices to hers, asking what they had to do to get us to stay. I had to keep telling them that we were working on it but that we couldn't start a permanent program in East Harlem just yet. And they kept telling me that I just didn't understand. One mom said, "Please, I need someone to teach my daughter more than 'bang, bang, shoot 'em up.'"

That's hard to argue with.

In fact, I can't argue with it. She's totally right. And my heart started to crack.

On Friday at 5pm, those 61 kids started streaming out the door, waving their Certificates of Participation and smiling like they'd just won the hugest prize. I watched from behind the registration table as hugs were exchanged, wishing so badly I could tell them "See you on Monday!"-- but knowing I couldn't. My heart cracked a little bit more.

And then the tears started. Not mine (those would come later), but from one of the little boys. Tears, sobs, wails. It didn't take me long to find the source of the misery; he was getting louder and louder. He had been upset the day before, too, and I'd held him until he stopped crying. But that day he wouldn't calm down even when I was holding him. He just kept getting more and more upset. His dad stood awkwardly next to him, making no effort to console him. The boy cried on, and the crack in my heart grew.

Shh, it's okay. You'll be okay. Don't be sad. -- I whispered softly in his ear. He kept crying, sobbing, wailing.

Shhh. Shhh. It's okay. You had fun. It's time to go home. Shhh. -- Now he was screaming and clinging to me.

Jesus loves you so much. -- He whimpered and wrapped his arms tighter around my neck.

You're gonna be okay. Here's your coat.... -- and he threw himself back and started screaming again.

It's okay.... shhh.... Jesus loves you. Jesus, be with him. Let him know how much you love him. -- and he whimpered again and relaxed in my arms, though tears were still streaming down his face. And my heart broke completely.

I wiped the tears from his cheeks and helped him put on his coat. I hugged him tightly and whispered one last time "Jesus loves you so, so much" before he left with his dad.

We're only halfway through this month, but I'm learning a lot. I'm learning that it's okay not to have all the answers, that it's okay to sit in discomfort for a while and to wrestle with God about things that don't make sense. So I'll say it-- this week didn't make sense to me, and I'm wrestling with God about it.

So much need, and I don't understand what my role should be in meeting any of it. So much hurt, so much pain. I know I'm not the answer, but sometimes the need is so overwhelming that I don't even know how to tell them about the answer. I feel like I gave that community a glimpse of what could be and, in the process, made their hurt that much worse. And then there's this little boy who took a piece of my heart with him when he left wailing and sobbing. I know enough to know that something's very wrong with that picture; but I don't know enough to know what to do about it. I know God's heart breaks too, but I don't understand why he doesn't do something about it.

I've always loved the line in the song that says "Break my heart for what breaks yours"-- but as I sat at our closing prayer meeting on Friday night with tears streaming down my face, I thought God, I can't handle this. I can't handle my heart breaking for everything that breaks your heart. I'm just not strong enough to deal with all this pain and injustice.

This is the part where I'm supposed to wrap up neatly with some Bible verse that makes it all okay and makes sense of everything. But I'm going to sit in the discomfort for now, because I haven't found a Bible verse that makes any of this feel like it's okay. If you have one, feel free to share it with me. In the meantime, pray for the hurting hearts and those of us whose hearts are breaking as we try to serve them.

Whining for Camp

(It's late. I'm beat. And I have to be up early tomorrow. But I want to share this brief snapshot.....)

This week has been hard. I don't really know what else to call it. We've been inside again, so recruiting has been a challenge. You might remember how discouraged I was last week when we started with four kids. I thought it couldn't get worse than that. Really God? Do you have a cruel sense of humor? I mean, what else was I supposed to think when we had one kid an hour into our first day of camp? One kid. Twenty-seven volunteers and one kid. One. Not one hundred. One. Singular.

I wasn't the only one who was discouraged, but I was the one responsible for everyone else's discouragement. And I realize I'm biased, but I think that's worse.

So yeah, this week has been hard. Yesterday the majority of our volunteers got pulled to another project, and we faced a whole new set of challenges. Energy was dragging, enthusiasm was low. Discouragement, on the other hand, was running high.

Awesome.

We regrouped today. We prayed specific prayers. We talked about the importance of being excited for the kids. We prayed that we'd encounter Jesus. We begged God to send us kids.

He did. 32 of them. And when we debriefed at the end of the day, one of the college students said, "The other day Lud prayed a creative prayer. She said, 'God, would you make these kids whine so much about wanting to come to camp that their mom finally gives up and lets them come?' I didn't think much of it, but today there was a mom who brought her two daughters upstairs. I asked her how she found out about the camp, and she said, 'We got a flyer a couple days ago, but I threw it away. I got another flyer today, and my daughters saw it and whined so much that I finally gave up and brought them.'"

My eyes filled with tears. Because not only was it an awesome account of a specific answer to prayer, but it was also a much-needed reminder to ask him for specific things. Because I can't faze him by asking for something to big or too specific. He's in the small stuff. And it's all small stuff.

Deja Vu, NYCUP Style!

It's NYCUP, Week 2! The next round of college students arrived this afternoon, and our second outreach begins tomorrow! It's supposed to rain tomorrow and be cold later this week, so we're indoors once again. Thank you, Lord, that we have a space to hold it inside this week. This week's event is in East Harlem, and we have a couple special guests who have joined us for the festivities. Tim is an intern from Germany who will be with us for this week and next week; Eleanor is from last year's original Padre Plaza team and is spending her spring break with us to help out!

The students did a prayer walk in the neighborhood tonight and started handing out some of the flyers. They said people were excited; and I think it made them start to get excited, too!

So here we go again! Prayers appreciated.... and oh, so needed!

I Saw Jesus

One of the best parts of our debriefing session each day after camp is the part where the college students answer "Where did you see Jesus today?" And then they go around and say where they saw Jesus in their teammates. I said one today, but I didn't want to hog the conversation. So I thought I'd put my list here. That way you can be encouraged, too, about all the ways Jesus showed up in our midst today.

I saw Jesus...
... in Josh when he helped the kids who came in late open their water bottles and bags of Cheez-its
... in Brenna when she had endless enthusiasm and joy about recruiting outside even though it was frigid and windy outside.
... in Isaac when he sang his heart out-- and lost what was remaining of his voice.
... in Garrett when he lit up when the little boys from yesterday came back again today and ran straight for him.
... in Dan when he pitched in and helped set up chairs even though he technically was just there to observe.
... in Vianne and Heather when they took pride in their task of registration and went the extra mile to make sure we had a good record of each kid that came to our program.
... in Molly when she showed love to Tina so much that this girl who came to us scared and fragile returned today laughing and smiling about being there.
... in Hunter when he talked about how much he was blessed by interacting with the people from the community.

I prayed to encounter Jesus today. And I did. He looked an awful lot like a bunch of college students from Virginia.

Upside Down Ratio

"Upside Down" is the theme of our camps this month-- showing how Jesus turned worldly wisdom upside down and did things differently.

Well, today was Day 1 of Week 1. And our ratio of kids to adults was upside down, too. When we started we had 36 leaders. And 6 kids. So much for that goal of 4:1, kids to adults; we were 1:6. And I was discouraged.

I want to say that there was a great moment in there of surrender and faith. And that God showed up in huge ways and suddenly we had 100 kids. But that didn't happen. I got discouraged, and I felt guilty. For not having advertised more, for deciding to do it inside where we were less visible (it was sunny today, but I'd had to make the call earlier in the week), for not praying more and praying harder.

I want to say that several hours later, on this side of it, that I can look back and see what God was trying to teach me in that moment. But tonight after camp I had to lead a mentor training for my current mentor staff. We were talking about suffering and how God enters into our suffering-- into every aspect of our lives-- no matter how major or minor we (or others) might think it is. And what we kept coming back to was the importance of being honest with God in those moments. When we have the answers or we don't have the answers. When our hearts are full of praise or our hearts are full of questions and doubts.

It did get a little better... Eleven more kids came by the end; we had 17 kids total to go with our 36 adults. But if I'm really honest-- with myself, with you, with God-- tonight my heart is still full of questions and doubts; and I don't have any answers. I wonder if it's a mistake that we thought we could pull four of these camps off. I wonder if I should have done something differently in the planning. I wonder if I should have prayed differently or prayed better or prayed harder. The college students around me didn't seem discouraged in the least, and somehow that made me feel even worse. It makes me wonder if I'm even the right person for this; if my faith just isn't strong enough for the task at hand.

So there it is. My honest feelings at the end of my second 15-hour day. Unpolished and unglamified (is that even a word??) so you can know how to pray for me at this stage of this Month o' Madness. Tomorrow I'm sure we'll have more kids. And that's exciting to me, but it scares me somehow too. I don't want my faith to be dependent just on how many kids show up. One of my prayers leading up to this has been that all of us adults will encounter God-- that we'll know God is with us and that we'll experience him in whole new ways. That our joy and sense of his presence will be the same if we have 6 kids or if we have 60. That I won't feel guilty or inadequate because the outreach doesn't meet my standard of success, but that I'll find joy in the privilege of participating in what God is doing in these neighborhoods.

Blessed with Anger and Tears

March Madness started today (NYCUP style-- not the basketball type). College students from James Madison University arrived in East Harlem, ready to run our kids camp in the South Bronx starting tomorrow!

Tonight we had an all-too-stark reminder of the need for God's gospel to penetrate these neighborhoods. When the students were walking around and praying for the neighborhood, a group of them encountered a man viciously beating his wife. Cops came and arrested him, but (understandably!) it shook the students up quite a bit to see this kind of violence and injustice firsthand.

NYCUP has certain prayers that they pray together through every session they do. This benediction has been one of my favorites since the first time I heard it, but tonight it struck me in a new way.

May God bless you with discomfort
At easy answers, half truths, and superficial relationships,
So that you may live deep within your heart.

May God bless you with anger
At injustice, oppression, and exploitation of people,
So that you may work for justice, freedom, and peace.

May God bless you with tears to shed for those who 
Suffer pain, rejection, hunger, and war.
So that you may reach out your hand to comfort them and to turn their pain to joy.

And may God bless you with enough foolishness
To believe that you can make a difference in the world,
So that you can do what other claim cannot be done,
To bring justice and kindness to all our children and the poor.

When Jonathan prayed this over us at the end of the time tonight, I really appreciated the reminder that God was angry tonight, too. And he cried tonight, too. When that man was beating his wife, God wept because that's not justice. That's not the way he intended his world to be. He sent his Son into this world to redeem situations like that-- to see his kingdom come on this earth. So when we encounter those who are oppressed or suffering, it's okay to be angry and sad. God is too. But it's also okay to be hopeful-- what the world might call foolish-- that change can come. That justice and kindness can come, because that's the way he taught us to pray, isn't it?

"Thy kingdom come, thy will be done-- on earth as it is in heaven."

March Madness (to a whole new level)

Maybe you remember last year when we "stepped on the gas" and held a week-long outreach event in the South Bronx. Well, this year we're doing the same thing.

Times four.

That's right. When the light turns yellow, sometimes you just gotta step on the gas!

So this year we're partnering with InterVarsity's NYCUP (New York City Urban Project) and their Spring Break Plunge teams of college students who are coming to NYC for their spring breaks throughout the month of March. Four different teams. Four different sites. Four different outreaches.

Yes I, too, am tired just reading about it. ;)

How can you help?? Well, thank you for asking! It might sound cliche, but please pray for us! So, so many prayer requests--

• for good weather. We will be more visible if we can be outside. We can't be outside if it's not good weather. We have indoor contingency plans for Weeks 1,2, and 4; but Week 3 we're returning to Padre Plaza. Please please pray for warmth and sun!
• for favor with the "powers that be"-- whether that's in a park (Week 1), the play-yard of a housing project (Week 2) or in a charter school that serves primarily children in the foster care system (Week 4), we need favor with those who run these places.
• for unity. The devil would love to distract us from the work we're doing. And a great way to do that would be for there to be disunity on our team. Pray that we all continue to work as a united team!
• for energy and strength. I remember how tired I was last year at the end of one of these weeks. The upside is we know we are not going to be doing this by any strength of our own! Pray for me also as I'll be running our current program even while this is going on in March. There's a lot of exciting stuff going on in our current program too. Pray that I'll be able to give it the attention it needs without burning myself out.
• for the right volunteers. God knows who's coming for our volunteer teams, but we have no idea! Pray for college students with willing, flexible, adaptable, teachable hearts who are ready to serve and love on these kids! Pray that they will have just the right skillset to make these outreaches go well.
• for the details. There are so, so many details and logistics. Pray that we will think of them-- preferably ahead of time!
• for encouragement and joy. Pray that we won't be so busy and distracted that we miss Jesus in our midst. Pray that we experience him and get to know him better each day throughout March.
• for salvation. There are so many kids in the South Bronx (where we'll be Weeks 1,3,4) and in East Harlem (where we'll be Week 2). Many (most??) of them have never heard of Jesus. Pray boldly with us that children would hear about and believe in Jesus this upcoming month.

I'm sure there are more things to pray for, just as I'm sure there are more details to think through that haven't even crossed my mind yet! The good news is, Jesus knows all those prayer requests and all those details already and has them under control. We're banking on that!

Thank you for praying!!

Plagiarized Post

I literally could not have said this better myself. And I don't really have much to say about it other than....

Amen.

Throwaway Scripture?

"Exceedingly, abundantly above all we can ask or imagine," Gretchen said to me today. "So do we believe it-- really believe it applies to us-- or is it just some throwaway Scripture?"

You probably remember that I have a love-hate relationship with Valentine's Day (If you don't remember, I think this previous post sums up my views pretty well). And to be honest, it gets harder each year. I think you can only tell yourself "maybe this will be my last Valentine's Day as a single" so many times before you start to wonder if you'll experience it any other way. It can be easy to be cynical and hard to keep hoping and trusting.

Don't get me wrong-- I'm not caving in; I'm still actively fighting those feelings of cynicism. I still love Valentine's Day. From a distance, true; but I still love it (or, at the very least, still want to love it). And I am still fighting to believe that God is a loving Father who delights to give me good gifts and is planning something exceedingly, abundantly above all I can ask or imagine.

It's a Scripture I can't afford to throw away; so I'm going to cling to it with all I've got.

City Sledding!

I didn't know it was possible either. I mean really, who sleds in New York City? Answer: this girl. And other answer: you need to try it too!

We got almost a foot of snow in the city last night. Youth group got canceled, which really bummed me out. We've been trying to get it started for months now but have only had a handful of kids show up for any given event. Last night we were expecting twelve kids-- more than twice our record high! We held out canceling as long as we could, but soon it was clear that it just wouldn't be smart to ask people to go out in that weather.

But wait! If we have to cancel on account of snow, let's do something else with the snow, right??! Our options, as we saw them, were snow football and sledding. There was definitely more interest in sledding. And really, only two slight hurdles to overcome: 1. Where does one go sledding in NYC? and 2. What does one use for a sled in NYC?

The first hurdle was actually pretty easy. Thank you, Google. Pilgrim Hill in Central Park-- done and done! Next hurdle.... sleds. I was sure that one of the ghetto five and dime stores in East Harlem would sell magic saucers, so I headed out in the snow and trudged from one store to another....

Excuse me, do you sell sleds?
:: blank stare ::
Um, do you sell anything for riding down hills in the snow?
"Sorry, I no know wha you mean."
Magic saucers? Sleds? Anything for playing in the snow?
"Sorry, I no think so."

We got a little farther at the next store. There they offered me a snow shovel. At least they understood I needed something related to snow. But I just didn't have a good feeling about having kids riding down a hill on a snow shovel. I wandered around the store and started to get an idea. I texted my youth group co-leader: "How ghetto is okay?" Thankfully he was up for it and had a stash of cardboard. So I grabbed some super high quality $1.49 shower curtain liners and one vinyl laundry bag and headed downtown, where we began to put our awesome crafting skills to work. An hour later we had three epic sled-type creations. One was toboggan-style, and the other two were smaller, flying saucer versions.

We met the rest of the group at the park and headed over to the sledding hill. Some of the boys had found legit sleds (not to say ours weren't "legit"; but stores recognized and declared theirs to be such.... I'm not sure they would have given ours that same designation) and two of them had brought buggy boards.

Things I learned today:
1. a lot of people go sledding in NYC
2. a lot of the people who go sledding in NYC find out where to go sledding in NYC by asking Google
3. this means that sledding in NYC means you will run into people as you sled down a hill
4. the best homemade sled is made by putting cardboard into a vinyl laundry bag (it was actually even more popular than some of the "legit" sleds)
5. sledding is still one of the most fun things ever-- even if it's not the biggest, steepest, best hill and you don't have a real, legitimate sled.

Bottom line: you should reclaim your childhood. Don't make excuses. "I live in a city" and "I don't own a sled" are not valid reasons not to get outside and enjoy the snow.

Trust me on this one.

And you can thank me later.

Confessions of a Workaholic

I don't know if people even read this blog anymore-- it's been so long since my last post. But the post has been building in my soul, and blogging it is the only way to get it out. So here goes...

Apparently others have known this about me for a while, but I'm just learning that I'm a workaholic. I don't know yet if I'm a workaholic in the negative or the positive sense of the word, but the truth is still there: I don't know how to stop working. I call it many other things-- diligent, thorough, dedicated-- but now I'm calling it something else-- exhausting.

Things are going really well at my job. Since October I've been full-time with the mentoring program, and I feel as though I'm finally living out my calling. I get to work with at-risk kids for my full-time job, and I get paid to do it! Ah, but herein lies the problem as well-- I love my job, so it's hard for me to stop doing it. I have a team of people that I work with now, and my staff has taken it on their shoulders to care for my mental and physical health.

"When's the last time you took a day off?" they'll ask me.
Well, I took Tuesday morning off....
"No, you weren't in the office; but didn't you have a meeting?"
Oh, right..... I went to Portland last week....
"But you were on email with us the whole time..."
Busted.

I had coffee with one of my co-workers last week, and when he addressed this same issue, I 'fessed up: Josh-- I told him-- I don't even know how to take a day off. I don't know what to do to relax. To me, the idea of taking a break from working on something means working on something else. It's not that I don't want to relax; it's that I don't know how to.... and it's getting exhausting.

And thus began a team-wide effort to help me learn how to relax.

And so, with their guidance (and some strict rules put in place) I took today off. My phone is off; I'm not checking my email. I'm going to a yoga class at my gym in a couple hours. I'm finally blogging (as you know, I haven't taken time to do that in ages). I'm sitting on the couch with a cup of coffee and my Bible and journal. I have a magazine to read later. I'm not even going to glance at my email because I know there will be something there that will get my mind going and I'll feel the need to address immediately. I know it means tomorrow will be a full day and maybe I'll regret that I didn't look at email today. But for today, I'm taking one baby-step toward learning what it means to relax.

My name is Anne Davies, and apparently I'm a workaholic. But I really don't want to be....